Posts tagged Sassy Advice

Guest Post: Texting Your Way Into Her Heart – Advice for Men

heart on phone

Claudia Cox, an expert on romance in the digital age, is sharing her wisdom with us today. This Guest Post offers her personal preferences and professional insights into the medium of text messaging as a messenger of modern romance… with comments from Kathryn! It’s a Valentine’s Day Extravaganza!   Texting a woman shouldn’t feel like […]

Averting a Chernobyl of the Heart — Sassy Advice for When You Don’t Like Them Back

I Love Lisa

Your Wholistic Guide to Understanding Unrequitted Love… and Avoiding Disaster When It Strikes We’ve all been too friendly, too flirty, or too fast with someone who cared more for us than we did for them. Whether it’s being kind out of sympathy for someone having a rough time, or starting a relationship with no intention […]

Engagement Cancelled! The 6 Things You Need To Know About Men to Avoid Heartbreak

bride running away

My first engagement ended in heartbreak, but it helped me to discover six keys truths about long-term relationship success with men. I’m sharing them here so you can avoid my fate. — When I was 21, I proposed actual marriage to an actual human man, a guy I had been dating for a year and […]

The Modern Macho Part 2: Healthy Masculine Expression, Loveable Men

nurturing man

Most portrayals of men in our popular culture don’t attempt to present men as ‘loveable’. But Loving the men around us, and encouraging them to love themselves, is an important part of redefining masculinity as healthy and healing. In Part 1, I talked about the radical idea that manhood is something to be genuinely proud […]

The Modern Macho—Part 1: On Men, Masculinity, and Retaking the Word

Manhood is Men. However and Whoever they are.

If there’s one word every little boy knows, and feels deep in his bones, it’s ‘hero.’ But how can today’s modern men be the heroes of their own lives? What does Macho mean? It means pride in manhood. It means being happy about being a man. It can mean confidence, power, a dynamic energy that […]

Sometimes He’s Into You, And It Still Isn’t Enough

Tara Krebs

Distance can be a sign that the person you love isn’t into you. But sometimes, being into you isn’t enough for a happy relationship.   There is a question that many, many women ask themselves. It haunts them in the night, like a ghost, and not the sexy kind of ghost that occasionally inhabits Whoopi […]

Sassy Advice – How To Marry a Movie Star

For Sara – #1 Fan. It has come to my attention that movie stars are beautiful and wealthy. Granted, this is partly Hollywood style deception; makeup and whatnot. Ryan Gosling for example is actually a 68 year old woman of Portuguese descent.                       However, on average, these people […]

Sassy Advice – Real Love for Real People

sexy hug

Presence and honesty build real intimacy. So how should this reader let a guy know that she likes him?                       “Dear Kathryn,                   What is the best way to make sure the guy I like knows I’m                   crazy about him, how badly I want him?”                      Sincerely, Crazy About a Guy   Dear Crazy […]

Sassy Advice – Finally Getting Credit (for incredible horn-dog-ness)

But will he call you in the morning?

For literally centuries, a terrible myth has run rampant through the corridors of our mind. It has slammed the doors of righteousness along those corridors, and left a wad of gum in the water-fountain of justice. It was NOT wearing shoes with non-marking soles. I SAY: NO MORE. I am referring to the myth that men are […]

The Future is Now

We spend our lives planning for the future and hoping for the best. But what if what’s best is what is already happening? Let’s say you are looking to acquire some cash moneys. Now let’s say that you are on the gravy-train of intention and maybe have a boxed set of Your Wish Is Your […]