Claudia Cox, an expert on romance in the digital age, is sharing her wisdom with us today. This Guest Post offers her personal preferences and professional insights into the medium of text messaging as a messenger of modern romance… with comments from Kathryn! It’s a Valentine’s Day Extravaganza! Texting a woman shouldn’t feel like […]
Your Wholistic Guide to Understanding Unrequitted Love… and Avoiding Disaster When It Strikes We’ve all been too friendly, too flirty, or too fast with someone who cared more for us than we did for them. Whether it’s being kind out of sympathy for someone having a rough time, or starting a relationship with no intention […]
When we see potential mates as opponents, targets and obstacles instead of beautiful people worthy of our love and trust, everyone loses. There are some people who view dating as a game. We all know they’re out there. You may even be one of them. And that’s fine. You do you. If that’s the kind […]
My first engagement ended in heartbreak, but it helped me to discover six keys truths about long-term relationship success with men. I’m sharing them here so you can avoid my fate. — When I was 21, I proposed actual marriage to an actual human man, a guy I had been dating for a year and […]
Most portrayals of men in our popular culture don’t attempt to present men as ‘loveable’. But Loving the men around us, and encouraging them to love themselves, is an important part of redefining masculinity as healthy and healing. In Part 1, I talked about the radical idea that manhood is something to be genuinely proud […]
Pursuing a limited ‘Type’ of woman is sabotaging your chance at real love. When you’re looking for a woman, try looking with your whole self. Here’s how! Let’s be honest. When we look for a mate, we look for someone hot. Sexy. Irresistible. If you’re having trouble finding a woman with whom to experience romance, […]
Being Nice won’t get you a relationship. That’s because ‘Nice’ isn’t what women need. This is. “I figured if I was nice, I would impress girls. If I was nice enough, I would get a girlfriend.” I’ve heard this so many times. And for the record, I think it’s incredible. How awesome does […]
Distance can be a sign that the person you love isn’t into you. But sometimes, being into you isn’t enough for a happy relationship. There is a question that many, many women ask themselves. It haunts them in the night, like a ghost, and not the sexy kind of ghost that occasionally inhabits Whoopi […]
Presence and honesty build real intimacy. So how should this reader let a guy know that she likes him? “Dear Kathryn, What is the best way to make sure the guy I like knows I’m crazy about him, how badly I want him?” Sincerely, Crazy About a Guy Dear Crazy […]
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