Claudia Cox, an expert on romance in the digital age, is sharing her wisdom with us today. This Guest Post offers her personal preferences and professional insights into the medium of text messaging as a messenger of modern romance… with comments from Kathryn! It’s a Valentine’s Day Extravaganza! Texting a woman shouldn’t feel like […]
When we see potential mates as opponents, targets and obstacles instead of beautiful people worthy of our love and trust, everyone loses. There are some people who view dating as a game. We all know they’re out there. You may even be one of them. And that’s fine. You do you. If that’s the kind […]
My first engagement ended in heartbreak, but it helped me to discover six keys truths about long-term relationship success with men. I’m sharing them here so you can avoid my fate. — When I was 21, I proposed actual marriage to an actual human man, a guy I had been dating for a year and […]
Most portrayals of men in our popular culture don’t attempt to present men as ‘loveable’. But Loving the men around us, and encouraging them to love themselves, is an important part of redefining masculinity as healthy and healing. In Part 1, I talked about the radical idea that manhood is something to be genuinely proud […]
If there’s one word every little boy knows, and feels deep in his bones, it’s ‘hero.’ But how can today’s modern men be the heroes of their own lives? What does Macho mean? It means pride in manhood. It means being happy about being a man. It can mean confidence, power, a dynamic energy that […]
Pursuing a limited ‘Type’ of woman is sabotaging your chance at real love. When you’re looking for a woman, try looking with your whole self. Here’s how! Let’s be honest. When we look for a mate, we look for someone hot. Sexy. Irresistible. If you’re having trouble finding a woman with whom to experience romance, […]
Being Nice won’t get you a relationship. That’s because ‘Nice’ isn’t what women need. This is. “I figured if I was nice, I would impress girls. If I was nice enough, I would get a girlfriend.” I’ve heard this so many times. And for the record, I think it’s incredible. How awesome does […]
7 steps to clear shame, acknowledge your power, and be truly present with the women you care about. It’s going to happen. I know it hasn’t yet. I know it feels like it’s happened for everyone else, even the known weirdos and self-professed sexist perverts. They’re all getting more ass than a hay bale […]
Distance can be a sign that the person you love isn’t into you. But sometimes, being into you isn’t enough for a happy relationship. There is a question that many, many women ask themselves. It haunts them in the night, like a ghost, and not the sexy kind of ghost that occasionally inhabits Whoopi […]
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